3 Years
Developmental Milestones
Language: Your child is growing smarter and can understand words like “in” “on” and “under”. They’re able to say their first name, age, and sex. They will also be able to tell you the names of their friends. When talking, they can say words like “I”, “me”, “we”, you. Other words that they can use include plural words like cars, dogs, cats. It should be more fun talking to your toddler since they’ll be able to respond in 2 to 3 sentences instead of babbling. Be prepared because they will ask a lot of questions.
Brain Development:They play well at this age. They love playing with toys, buttons, levers, and moving parts. Their imagination is also developing. You'll see them playing make-believe with dolls, cars, animals, and people. They can put together puzzles with 3 or 4 pieces. When drawing, they can copy shapes like circles with a pencil or crayon. They can turn the pages of a book, one page at a time, can screw and unscrew lid jars or turn door handles.
Movement: Your child can now climb, can walk up the stairs without holding the rail. They can run easily. They can even pedal tricycles.
Physical: Will gain 4 to 5 lbs., grows 2 to 3 inches . They will have improved balance, improved vision, and will have all 20 primary teeth.
Sleep: They will sleep for 11 to 13 hours a day and can control when to go to the bathroom during the daytime. It is also possible at night.
Social-Emotional Milestone
At this age, they can be away from mom and dad and spend more time with friends or others outside of the family. They’ll be able to show their love to their friends through hugs and kisses. When their friend is crying, they will worry. They have an idea of “mine”, “his”, or “hers” but will also understand the idea of taking turns in games and sharing. They may show more emotions.
Life Skills: Money
Did you know, by age 3, most children can grasp the basics of money? By age 7, these habits are set. By 8, children are beginning to hold a serious interest in money and finances. Some children may even express the desire to earn and spend money. We have to admit that a majority of our schools don’t give enough focus on teaching kids how to be responsible spenders or where money even comes from. Admittedly, younger children may have thought that money never runs out and always comes from Mom or Dad’s wallet. It is our responsibility to teach our kids basic knowledge of money, a skill that they’ll definitely use throughout their life. Teach your kids basic knowledge like “What is Money and What does it Do?” or “How Do you Get Money”? They should also know the difference between “Needs and Wants”. Another important practical lesson includes the differences between Giving, Savings, Spending. These skills can be applied to everyday circumstances, such as when you go out to buy groceries. Is this toy a need or a want? Another example of practical steps is assigning them pocket change to spend on stores, and be honest with them about what they can and can’t afford. Use Clear jars and use them as a piggy bank. Show them how money grows little by little and help them save up for something they really want. Finally, model good behavior for your kids. Remember, they are most likely gonna do what they see you do. Check out these resources on practical ways on how to teach young kids, even preschoolers and kindergartners, about Smart Money spending. [Article]
Action Items
Provide a safe area for play for both fun and physical activity
Help your child learn the rules of play for fun sports and games
Take neighborhood field trips and point out things that you guys might see.
Encourage the child to play well with others and develop their social skills
Provide activities related to their interest and answer any questions they may have
Teach your child to use words to express their feelings